Leadership from the `Special One'

Building High Performance Teams.
Who i am talking about?
Jose Morinho (My idol)
I like the way he manage his team as well his life philsophy.
Not only about football but the way he manage his life.
Everything Need a system.

"Ferguson is Right.Money doest not guarentee success.
I showed that last season when my porto team beat
Manchester United.
Its all about leadership." Jose Morinho.

1)Leading from the mind eye - The power of focus

2)Cycle of bonding - Motivation, Inspiration, Resilence

3)Leader as secure base -Creating trust to drive change

4)Conflict resolution - resolving differences

5)Power of dialogue - Building bridges with common understanding

6)High impact negotiation - Influencing and persuading

7)Leveraging strength - Team Self awareness

8)Managing emotion - Creating High energy.


Cycle Of bonding.

Morinho creates bond with every single player in his team and personally know each of them.Morinho is known for his great "rapport" with his player.

He know each player intimately and know which button to press for each player.
Some say Mourinho is avuncular and caring, while other say he is an intimidating tyrant.
Neither is true, He simply worked out how to use differing training methods for each plater. "His training session are spectacular". Says C.Ronaldo. "They have great intensity but we dont feel tired because we are extremly motivated"

Every team Mourinho coaches, bond like family, Mourinho add "You must create a positive atmosphere and make everyone feel part of group.


Jose Mourinho - ....I pray alot. I believe in GOD. I try to be a good man so HE can have a bit of time to give me a hand when i need it.

New Chapter

24.8.10 Happy birthday


Past Happiness we keep in memories.
Past Sadness we throw away.

Once we had before and once we touch before.

Is time to move on.
wish for u Happy birthday,



Although we together for only 8 month
But is a meaningful and a sweet memories for me even every tear drop from our eyes even the sadness and pain we go thru.
I am happy i meet u.



我只是想给你最好的我。。。
有一种爱叫做放手.

Awaken From A Long Dream

In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.

I’ve had enough waiting for your so-called arrangement
The future that you spoke of, just how long will it take
Always have to wait till it’s too late to realize that I’m lovable
I want to depend on you, but you’re not there

The places that are supposed to be happy
All that you gave was nothing
Staring off into space by myself on holidays
Can’t find someone to accompany me to watch the sea
I’m standing outside the door of happiness
But haven’t been able to enter inside
The pain that you have cumulatively inflicted
It’s really hard for me to be released from it

I finally realized that love cannot return
And you are always understanding too late
Only in the end do you speak your mind
Crying and begging me to stay
I finally realized that love cannot return
There are too many obstacles in front of us
But our hand cannot let go

You always want me to be obedient, slowly planning the future
But my tears were constantly streaming down
In the past how have you displayed the trust that you were supposed to give
I’ve been slowly pushed off a cliff directly by you

From the paleness of my face
Can see the memories slowing down
The sweetness of the past is rewinding
But the feelings are already not present
And the hopes that I have placed in you
Have been shattered by you time and again
It’s already broken into too many pieces
How can they be put back together and resumed again